Understanding in love

The major cause of fights in a relationship is lack of understanding. Better understanding between the partners is important for growth of relationship. The essence of true chemistry of love comes from understanding. If you have no respect, no dignity for each other, the relationship goes sour. Understanding comes from knowing each other to the core.

Understanding in a relationship comes from acceptance. The most basic thing, we crib about in relationship is habits. The habits can in the form of negative or positive. But, we pay heed only to negative habits of our partner. We overlook the positive traits.

As I said, acceptance is a key to understanding. Acceptance of negative habits is also very important. once you accept all the negative and positive points; you have a better understanding for each other. Understanding is also in case of emotional compatibility. If you aren’t emotionally involved with a person, you may not have any understanding.

Emotional bonding helps to know a person better. And, once you know the person, it becomes easier to know each other well. Emotional and metal bonding is important part of any relationship. But, emotional bonding is hard to achieve, unless you truly wish for.

Understanding also involves knowing needs and wants without telling each other. If you have good understanding requirement of words are not necessary in, you pay heed only to gestures of a person. Verbal things don’t count in this type of understanding. Understanding doesn’t require a full time physical commitment in case of relationship. 

At the back of mind, you know someone is there for you. So, in this case you don’t require a physical proximity. Any relationship is incomplete without true understanding for each other. Understanding only takes your relationship a step further. Understanding is vital for any long term commitment.