Thursday 20 August 2015

Sacrifice in love

Should there be sacrifice in a relationship? Well, there seems to be a contradiction in this question. In my opinion, there can be sacrifice in a relationship, but not on terms of your own happiness. There are many women who completely sacrifice in love relationship, just to keep their man happy.

In this case, they forego their own happiness and self worth. If there is excess of sacrifice in any love relationship, then it may be termed as one sided relationship. Any love relation is based on mutual respect and understanding. so, compatibility should also be equal.

Sacrificing for petty things is normal in any love relationship. This is related to amendment. However, sacrificing at the cost of your happiness and wishes is uncalled for.

In case of avoiding sacrifice in a relationship, its imperative to set definite terms and conditions. It’s vital to let your partner know about all your interests and hobbies, before any commitment.

Without sacrificing your wishes, you can expect a peaceful relationship. It’s important to decide everything on mutual basis. One sided rule is a complete turn off for any relationship. In case of one sided relation, other person may have to sacrifice on wishes.

Sacrificing in any relationship also depends on personal nature of any person. If a person tends to think for others, then sacrifice is natural in this case. There have been many instances of sacrificing in case of introvert people in a relationship.

If one partner is shy and other partner is extrovert, then sacrificing in case of shy partner is common. This is more like a dominating situation. In this case one partner takes all the decisions and other partner sacrifices on the basis of situation.

Sacrificing in any relationship must be in the form of adjustment. Sacrificing at the cost of self respect isn’t a good thing to do.


 

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